I would take time to listen to him and to find out what is actually going on. Then I would do all that I could to help him with everything and do all that I could, to make sure he wouldn't do anything stupid.
I wont yell at him because that would just make him even more mad so I would just listen to what he has to say and asked him why he did what he did and try to make him realize that what he did wasn't the best choice.The steps I would take to handle this is I would take rifle and make him feel better about life so he didn't kill anyone else.I would also let him transfer schools to get a fresh start.
If I was Josh's mom I would try to help him get involved in organizations that interest him, outside of school, with members that do not attend the same school as him. That way he could start fresh and make new friends that could hopefully help him through his struggles because with teens, we offend times tend to listen to our friends more than adults in our lives.
If I was Josh's mom I would try to make him feel better. No one should so far as to kill someone so I would take away the rifle. Then I would place him in another school and activities that he would like to to that would allow him to feel better. This way he can start fresh and have a new outlook on the students he has around him and make new friends.
If I were Josh's parents I would try to punish him, but not be to tough and hurt his feelings. Try to understand why he did it and see if I could help him get over whatever is bothering him.
If I were Josh's parents, I would listen to what he has to say. By doing that, he would feel more important. I also wouldn't force him to do anything he won't benefit from like talking to a psychotherapist. Some people don't like talking to unfamiliar people abut their problems.
If I was Josh's mom, I would work on taking the steps toward fixing our relationship at home first. Maybe get him to do more things with me and try to get him to open up and talk about what's going on. I'd for sure look into different clubs or schools to see if there's something he'd be interested in that would help him. I'd make sure I watched what I said so I didn't step on his toes and offend him. Also, I'd absolutely take the weapon away from him, to make him realize how big of a deal it is.
If I were Josh's dad, I would first take a perspective out of the role of being a father so that way I could set angry emotions out of the way to really find out why Josh is acting the way he is. Next, I would have talk and plan on what he is going to do in order to gain his life back again so that way he can have a fresh start and move on with his life, not letting this be the end or the only thing that will he will remember about high school. However, there will be severe punishment after he understands what he has done and the chaos that follow his actions, but this will be a life lesson he is going to have to learn the hard way.
If I were Josh's parents, I would talk to him about what is making him so mad. I would not come at him in an angry way because that would only make things worse. I probably wouldn't punish him until I knew what was wrong. Also I would hide the rifle because if he wants it so bad he is obviously going to try and do something bad with it.
If i was his dad i would let him talk to me about his problems. I would be there for him . I wouldn't be like a normal dad and start to yell at him i would let him explain to me.
If I were Josh's parents, I would sit him down and talk to him about what's going on in his head and possibly even take him to a therapist and just let him let out how he's really feeling. I wouldn't punish him until I get to the bottom of what's actually wrong with him.
If I were josh's parents, I would try to get him to tell us what was going on. Then if that didn't work I would send him to therapy. I would try as hard as I could to try and get the information out of him about what is wrong. He might not want to say it right way, but eventually I would think he would realize he needs to talk about it to eventually help himself. The main thing would be to take away his rifle, because he has the thought that he needs to use it in a bad way.
If I were Josh's mom I would ground him and take his gun away, but I wouldn't go as far as putting him in therapy. I would try to talk to him about how he is feeling and what set him off. If he was still feeling like he this after a few weeks I would then send him to talk to someone. I wouldn't be angry if he doesn't talk to them, understanding that there isn't much you can really do in the situation and he probably wouldn't want to talk about it.
I would listen to what he has to say and when he is done talking then I would tell him what I think about it and see if we can both come up with a compromise.
If I were one of Josh's parents, I would try to understand what it is that is making him angry and try to get to the root of the problem so that I can help him to work through the problem and if that does not work I would try to get him into a place that could help him so he does not hurt himself or others.
I would move him to a better school, find him an orginization bent on helping kids like him. I would take my responsiblity as a parent very seriously, and become more of a parent to Josh than before.
if i was josh's dad they way i would handle the situation that josh is in is by once when i walked in the door and saw josh with the rifle i would try and take the rifle by force and then ask him why he had it and then ask what the whole situation was with him and his anger at school
I would listen to what he has to say. I wouldn't let him throw a tantrum but make him talk things out with someone. As long as he is talking with someone and not causing problems or threatening others lives everything will be fine.
If I were Josh's parents I would have checked him into a psychiatric hospital and sighed him up for intensive psycho therapy. I would have never bought him a rifle either.
If Josh were my son, I would want to talk to him, allowing him to talk just as much as I do. According to his past, he had been a good kid, but something caused him to turn into what he is now. To be a good parent, talking to him myself would be the best option.
I would take time to listen to him and to find out what is actually going on. Then I would do all that I could to help him with everything and do all that I could, to make sure he wouldn't do anything stupid.
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ReplyDeleteI wont yell at him because that would just make him even more mad so I would just listen to what he has to say and asked him why he did what he did and try to make him realize that what he did wasn't the best choice.The steps I would take to handle this is I would take rifle and make him feel better about life so he didn't kill anyone else.I would also let him transfer schools to get a fresh start.
ReplyDeleteIf I was Josh's mom I would try to help him get involved in organizations that interest him, outside of school, with members that do not attend the same school as him. That way he could start fresh and make new friends that could hopefully help him through his struggles because with teens, we offend times tend to listen to our friends more than adults in our lives.
ReplyDeleteIf I was Josh's mom I would try to make him feel better. No one should so far as to kill someone so I would take away the rifle. Then I would place him in another school and activities that he would like to to that would allow him to feel better. This way he can start fresh and have a new outlook on the students he has around him and make new friends.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's parents I would try to punish him, but not be to tough and hurt his feelings. Try to understand why he did it and see if I could help him get over whatever is bothering him.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's parents, I would listen to what he has to say. By doing that, he would feel more important. I also wouldn't force him to do anything he won't benefit from like talking to a psychotherapist. Some people don't like talking to unfamiliar people abut their problems.
ReplyDeleteIf I was Josh's mom, I would work on taking the steps toward fixing our relationship at home first. Maybe get him to do more things with me and try to get him to open up and talk about what's going on. I'd for sure look into different clubs or schools to see if there's something he'd be interested in that would help him. I'd make sure I watched what I said so I didn't step on his toes and offend him. Also, I'd absolutely take the weapon away from him, to make him realize how big of a deal it is.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's dad, I would first take a perspective out of the role of being a father so that way I could set angry emotions out of the way to really find out why Josh is acting the way he is. Next, I would have talk and plan on what he is going to do in order to gain his life back again so that way he can have a fresh start and move on with his life, not letting this be the end or the only thing that will he will remember about high school. However, there will be severe punishment after he understands what he has done and the chaos that follow his actions, but this will be a life lesson he is going to have to learn the hard way.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's parents, I would talk to him about what is making him so mad. I would not come at him in an angry way because that would only make things worse. I probably wouldn't punish him until I knew what was wrong. Also I would hide the rifle because if he wants it so bad he is obviously going to try and do something bad with it.
ReplyDeleteIf i was his dad i would let him talk to me about his problems. I would be there for him . I wouldn't be like a normal dad and start to yell at him i would let him explain to me.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's parents, I would sit him down and talk to him about what's going on in his head and possibly even take him to a therapist and just let him let out how he's really feeling. I wouldn't punish him until I get to the bottom of what's actually wrong with him.
ReplyDeleteIf I were josh's parents, I would try to get him to tell us what was going on. Then if that didn't work I would send him to therapy. I would try as hard as I could to try and get the information out of him about what is wrong. He might not want to say it right way, but eventually I would think he would realize he needs to talk about it to eventually help himself. The main thing would be to take away his rifle, because he has the thought that he needs to use it in a bad way.
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's mom I would ground him and take his gun away, but I wouldn't go as far as putting him in therapy. I would try to talk to him about how he is feeling and what set him off. If he was still feeling like he this after a few weeks I would then send him to talk to someone. I wouldn't be angry if he doesn't talk to them, understanding that there isn't much you can really do in the situation and he probably wouldn't want to talk about it.
ReplyDeleteI would listen to what he has to say and when he is done talking then I would tell him what I think about it and see if we can both come up with a compromise.
ReplyDeleteIf I were one of Josh's parents, I would try to understand what it is that is making him angry and try to get to the root of the problem so that I can help him to work through the problem and if that does not work I would try to get him into a place that could help him so he does not hurt himself or others.
ReplyDeleteI would move him to a better school, find him an orginization bent on helping kids like him. I would take my responsiblity as a parent very seriously, and become more of a parent to Josh than before.
ReplyDeleteif i was josh's dad they way i would handle the situation that josh is in is by once when i walked in the door and saw josh with the rifle i would try and take the rifle by force and then ask him why he had it and then ask what the whole situation was with him and his anger at school
ReplyDeleteI would listen to what he has to say. I wouldn't let him throw a tantrum but make him talk things out with someone. As long as he is talking with someone and not causing problems or threatening others lives everything will be fine.
ReplyDeletei would help my kid out and move him through what he is feeling and i would make sure not tor push him to far
ReplyDeleteIf I were Josh's parents I would have checked him into a psychiatric hospital and sighed him up for intensive psycho therapy. I would have never bought him a rifle either.
ReplyDeleteIf Josh were my son, I would want to talk to him, allowing him to talk just as much as I do. According to his past, he had been a good kid, but something caused him to turn into what he is now. To be a good parent, talking to him myself would be the best option.
ReplyDeleteIf I was Joshes dad then the first thing I would do is sell his rifle to teach him a lesson. I would also make sure that he was going through therapy.
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